Skip to main content
★★★☆☆ Mixed — Good Elements but Notable Concerns

How He Loves

David Crowder Band Church Music 2009 CCLI #5032549

Summary

This song contains some genuinely beautiful expressions of God's love and affection for His people. However, it also includes problematic imagery and suffers from theological imprecision. The "sloppy wet kiss" (original lyric) was controversial enough to be changed to "unforeseen kiss" in many versions. The song is highly experiential and subjective, which is not inherently wrong but lacks the doctrinal grounding that sustains worship over time.

Concerns

  • Highly subjective and experiential — more about feeling than truth
  • Original 'sloppy wet kiss' imagery is inappropriate for corporate worship
  • 'If His grace is an ocean we're all sinking' — unclear metaphor, drowning in grace sounds troubling
  • Lacks specific reference to Christ's atoning work

Strengths

  • Genuine attempt to express the overwhelming nature of God's love
  • 'Heaven meets earth like an unforeseen kiss' references incarnation
  • Emotional authenticity has pastoral value for those who struggle to feel God's love

Line-by-Line Commentary

Brief fair-use quotations for the purpose of criticism and commentary.

"He is jealous for me, loves like a hurricane, I am a tree bending beneath the weight of His wind and mercy"

God's jealousy for His people IS biblical (Exodus 34:14). The hurricane metaphor is vivid but risks portraying God's love as destructive rather than redemptive.

"If His grace is an ocean, we're all sinking"

The metaphor is confused. Being surrounded by grace should be positive, but 'sinking' has negative connotations — drowning, helplessness. Compare with Ephesians 3:18-19 which speaks of knowing the breadth and depth of Christ's love.

Fair Use Notice: This analysis contains brief quotations from copyrighted lyrics for the purpose of criticism, commentary, and education, which constitutes fair use under Section 107 of the Copyright Act. WorshipTruth does not host or distribute copyrighted lyrics or recordings. We encourage you to support songwriters by purchasing their music through official channels.